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Being Mindful: Coping with the Stresses of a Student’s Life

Students may face a different kind of stress compared to people who work. Before college, the school day ends at a certain time, but with homework, studying, and projects, there doesn’t really seem to be a definitive end to the school day. After high school, the division between the school day and the rest of the day blurs even further when there is always something we could be studying or reading for.

 

In this kind of environment, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed with work and stress. On top of that, students of all ages might feel competition among their friends, further complicating the school and social life balance. What are some tips for managing these stressors?

 

Get Organized. Juggling all our commitments in our head is unnecessarily stressful. There are many physical planners and productivity apps available to help us manage deadlines and test dates. Choosing one that works for you might take some time, but will definitely pay off in the long-run! The key is not to let the planner/organizer stress you out further. Each day can begin or end with a recap of things to do, and crossing off accomplished tasks can be really satisfying! Planners can also help you avoid overbooking yourself.

 

Get Help, If You Need. This could simply mean asking a friend or teacher for help on understanding a new concept covered in class. This could also mean asking a trusted adult or advisor for help navigating changes difficult to face alone: a parent, a doctor, or a teacher are all great starting points for questions about politics, gender and sexuality, or social phenomena we see everyday. The internet is full of information and can be a tempting go-to but it’s easy to get lost in a sea of opinions out there.

 

Breathe. This is meant both literally and figuratively - we need to relax! In our fast-paced lives, it takes effort and planning to do so. Taking a few minutes each day (such as signing up for the eMindful Challenge) to try some meditation techniques can help us clear our mental clutter, which can make facing the next task easier. If meditation isn’t for you, that’s okay - there are other ways to relax productively such as putting down your smartphone for at least a few minutes. Some of our friends use cooking, baking, exercising, reading, writing, just to name a few, as ways to decompress. The point is to challenge yourself to do something that you might continue to benefit from. For example, if you make a healthy snack now, it means you’re less likely to go grab fast food later. If you read a book by your favorite author now, you can remember it later and enjoy it then too.

 

Sarah is CHIL's lead blogger and currently a student at UPenn with plans to attend medical school in the future. To decompress, Sarah likes to go running or do crossword puzzles.

The Parent's Role Amid a Sea of Opinions

A few weeks ago, we wrote about the significance of the language we use when we talk with children about weight. The words that parents and doctors use can have a great impact on how children and teens think about, or perceive, their weight and overall health.

 

Recently, the New York Times published an article by a physician titled, “Do Parents Make Kids Fat?” This rather startling question can be thought of as an extreme example of the influence parents could have on their children’s weight and how they think about weight.

 

The first thing the article pointed out was the “tremendous stigma” we direct at parents of overweight children, whether we intend to or not. As Dr. Julie Lumeng at the University of Michigan, who was interviewed in the article, puts it, “‘Everyone looks at the parent and thinks: That parent is incompetent. They don’t care about their child. Why can’t they just make the child eat less and exercise?’”

 

These questions illustrate several assumptions people may easily make about parents of overweight children. For example, people may think that the parents do not care about their children’s health, or they simply lack the willpower to enforce healthy habits at home or read the nutrition information on the back of food packages.  However, we simply cannot make these assumptions without knowing the full story of a child’s health. This involves family history, health history, and degree of exposure to what doctors today call an “obesogenic” environment in which unhealthy fast food is more accessible and cheaper than healthy food made from scratch.

 

There are many different opinions out there about how to raise healthy children, and while there are general guidelines that indicate what healthy weight ranges may be, different families and children need different things. The physicians mentioned in the article, who even consult each other with questions, agree that a parent must trust their instinct when it comes to their child. Being mindful about the child’s environment can help with this instinct.

 

This is where our campaign with eMindful can be helpful - through increased awareness of our circumstances, we can make healthier decisions for ourselves and for our children.

Why I'm going to CHIL with the Mindful Daily

by Jess Jeavons

Very often, when I chat with a friend who is stressed, overwhelmed, unmoored, or overstimulated by everyday life, I recommend meditation. Meditation changes lives! Individuals who meditate are better able to live in the moment, manage stress, and find time to do the things they've been meaning to do, like eating healthy and exercising. In addition, meditation can improve physical health, including lowering blood pressure, reducing headache frequency, and decreasing risk for heart disease. 

But when it comes to meditating, I haven't been able to make it stick as a healthful habit in my own life. 2018 will be my year for meditation, and I'm starting with eMindful's 1% Challenge to meditate for 1% of each day for 30 days straight. 

Check back in here between now and the end of February, and we'll keep you updated on our progress. We would also love to hear from you! Let us know how you're doing with the challenge in the comments section below, email us at chilinternal@gmail.com, and join us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram